Kids’ mental well-being is just as important as their physical health

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Mental health affects the way people think, feel and act. Taking care of our mental health is just as important as having a healthy life. Having good mental health is key to the healthy development and well-being of every child. Kids need good mental health — not only to be able to cope with challenges and adapt to change, but so they can feel good about themselves, build healthy relationships with others, and enjoy life.

Most parents have registered good performance at keeping their kids physically healthy. They burn the candle at both ends to ensure they get healthy diets, get immunized on time, and stay physically active. But despite their good parenting work, a child’s emotional and mental well-being is just as important to their quality of life as being physically healthy.

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Kerry Heath, a licensed professional counselor with Choosing Therapy adds that every aspect of our lives such as emotional, physical, relational, and spiritual are connected with our mental health. Since they are interrelated, when one or more areas are impacted, our mental health is likely to be adversely affected.

Kids’ mental health can be influenced by many things like family issues, school life, and life events. While they can experience mental health issues at any age, they are most at risk between the ages of 12 and 16 years. We all feel sad, upset, or angry sometimes.

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But if a kid feels like this most of the time, it is a sign they need immediate help. Alarmingly, 75 percent of kids and young people who experience mental health-related problems such as depression, abuse(physical, emotional, or sexual), bullying (including cyberbullying), suicide, or relationship problems (family and peer issues), and anxiety are not getting the help that they need.

It is next to impossible for a child with mental illness to be able to think, make new friends, and learn new things. But the one with good mental health can develop self-confidence, build self-esteem, practice perseverance, set goals in life, make good decisions, manage difficult emotions and develop a healthy emotional outlook on life.

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Most parents seldom spend enough time with their kids listening to their daily experiences, and what is pressing them. Due to harsh economic conditions coupled with huge debts and other needs that they must cater to, they end up working for long hours, approximately 15-20 hours a day, from Monday to Friday. Upon their arrival back home, some are usually frustrated, depressed, or drained.

According to Mental Health Foundation and Children Society, 2008, 50 percent of mental health problems are established by the age of 14 and 75 percent by age of 24.10 percent of children and young people (aged 5-16 years) have a clinically diagnosable mental problem, yet 70 percent of children and adolescents who experience mental health problems have not had appropriate interventions at a sufficiently early age.

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So who is to be blamed? Good mental health begins in infancy. But neglect by parents and guardians to pay attention to the mental health of their kids has bred danger. Kids of age 10-15 have died by suicide mainly because of depression, others end up using narcotics, and the number of those dropping out of school has risen.

In 2017, WHO ranked us sixth with the highest number of depression cases among African countries. Parents and caregivers, therefore, have a crucial role to play in fostering good mental health, seeking support when it is needed, and guiding their kids through life. As a parent, the most important way of supporting your child’s mental health is by showing them, unconditional love. Let your kids know that irrespective of the challenges that they are facing, you love them unconditionally and that you are there for them.

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Make sure you are framing your child’s mistake as a way of learning instead of communicating failure, says Jenni Torres, a senior Vice President of curriculum and instructions for the non-profit Waterford.org Moreover, encouragement, praise, and affirmations are all ways in which parents can not only build their child’s self-confidence and self-esteem but more importantly, support their mental health.

Research shows that low self-esteem is associated with anxiety, depression, and academic stress, which all significantly affect a child’s quality of life. Low self-esteem can even lead to suicidal ideation.Spending time together as a family also gives parents much-needed face-time with their kids to learn what they are struggling with.

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It sends messages to your kids that you care about what is happening in their lives. You can also easily recognize issues in your child’s life because you communicate regularly every time you are together. Parents also need to create an environment in their home where it is safe for kids to discuss their feelings and struggles. Kids need to feel safe in the environment that they are growing in.

Be a good role model by building a healthy and strong trust with your child. Once they are guaranteed that, they will eventually open up about their struggles.

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Address issues faced by vulnerable groups in health care

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Kenya’s Vision 2030 is a development programme that was introduced by the former President Mwai Kibaki.

He had an objective of transforming Kenya into a newly industrialising, middle-income country providing a high quality of life to all its citizens by 2030 in a clean and secure environment.

One of the definitive ways that the government was going to provide a high quality of life to all its citizens is through the provision of universal health care without fear and discrimination.

Access to quality health care is a constitutional right.

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Different health facilities equipped with medical equipment have been established to ensure every citizen enjoys high-quality health services.

Sadly, the vulnerable and marginalised groups have, for a long time, been encountering challenges when it comes to accessing their health needs.

Vulnerable populations most often include children, women, displaced people, ethnic minorities, the aged, people with disabilities, or those suffering some disease.

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Their experience with health inequities is rooted in a lack of political, social, and economic power.

According to Africa Policy Journal, health inequities occur often on a socioeconomic scale, whereby there is an increased health gap between the poorest and the remainder of the population.

This has prompted the unfair distribution of service delivery that doesn’t meet the specific needs of vulnerable and marginalised groups.

Discrimination has taken the lead placing the no voice group with limited resources at a very high relative risk for morbidity and premature mortality.

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Research conducted by International Journal For Equity in Health reveals that while the incidence of catastrophic healthcare expenditure is two per cent among individuals in the richest quintile, those in the poorest quintile have a catastrophic health expenditure incidence of 10 per cent.

A study exploring patients’ experiences during delivery after the introduction of free maternity services showed that women reported being neglected during delivery or labour and being physically and verbally abused.

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In terms of health insurance coverage, 39 per cent of Kenyans in the richest quintile have health insurance compared to three per cent for those in the poorest quintile.

In pursuit of seeking their standard health rights, the poor are, however, experiencing countless setbacks, especially those residing in far-flung areas.

They have to travel long distances to access their health needs.

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Lack of public transport, poor condition of the roads, and high costs are some of the contributing factors limiting access to health facilities.

Informal fees have also exposed the poor to out-of-pocket payments pushing them further down the poverty line.

They fear visiting the facilities since they might incur expenses that are beyond their capacities.

The vulnerable and marginalised groups are subjects of discrimination by health workers.

They are neglected and most health services are being offered to the rich families first.

Continued strikes, lack of sufficient medical equipment, shortage of medical workers, and embezzlement of public resources are among the leading barriers that hamper access to care.

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To expand service coverage for this particular group of people and strengthen the effectiveness of financial health reforms, let the government establish more easily-accessible health facilities.

Good governance can also help in the restoration of equity among communities.

The state should also ensure there are enough medical personnel who can execute their duties responsibly.

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Health facilities should also have improved medical equipment, and sufficient drugs and issues of occasional strikes must end.

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By MAXWELL KAMAU

Social media and your mental health; why you need to watch out

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The rapid growth of social media as a new medium of communication has enhanced and promoted connectivity between communities, not only in Kenya but also in other parts of the world.

Online platforms like Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat, Facebook, TikTok, and others provide a virtual interactive environment where communities around the world can connect and share, get news and information and even meet new people every day.

This has even prompted the proliferation of new social media users every year. According to Kepios special report, the analysis reveals that social media users in Kenya increased by 750 thousand (+6.8 percent) between 2021 and 2022.

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Just to mention, social media has been used to increase awareness of mental health because of its rapid use and growth globally. However, despite evidence of a growing trend in social media use in sub-Saharan Africa and particular Kenya, little has been reported or done on tapping the potential of social media within a mental health practice to not only increase awareness but also, how its users – be it adults or teenagers can help or prevent themselves from falling to the jaws of mental ill-health online whilst surfing through their social media platforms.

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For a decade, these popular social networking sites have presented to us so many benefits, the main one being enhanced connectivity that facilitates easier communication between communities. But despite all those positive ends, there have been downsides too; most victims being the college-aged young adults who have grown up in a world of screens.

Spending too much time engaging with social media can make you feel more lonely and isolated—and exacerbate mental health problems such as anxiety, depression, and suicidal thoughts.

Recent studies referenced by The Child Mind Institute and The National Center For Health Research suggest people who frequently use social media feel more depressed and less happy with life than those who spend more time on non-screen-related activities.

Notably, most active users of Twitter, Facebook, and TikTok usually pay more attention to the content they share. People post either videos or pictures of themselves to get more likes or comments (engagements) from their online friends. If they don’t get the feedback they desire, they feel disappointed or invalidated.

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Worth noting, that comparing your posts to those other people who receive a lot of reactions from their online family can cause a feeling of disappointment, low self-esteem, a distraction from other tasks, and even feelings of anxiety or depression.

If one is exposed to such a life online and their real-life does not match those expectations, they are likely to lose their self-esteem and view themselves as losers; sinking into a state of worthlessness, helplessness, and desperation.

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For some years now, several studies have found a relationship between the use of social media and some mental disorders. Findings have even led to the suggestion that a new mental disorder is recognized and be given the name, Internet Addiction Disorder.

Exposure and excessive use of social media apps and websites have also led to cyberbullying which has dire consequences on our mental health. 10 percent of teens report being bullied on social media and many other users are subjected to scurrilous comments.

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Social media platforms such as Twitter are hotspots for spreading hurtful rumors, tribalism, body shaming, lies, and abuse which damages our mental health by causing lasting emotional scars.

Unfortunately, it is impossible to notice and recognize a person suffering from any mental health condition just from their social media.

Other users experience the so-called “Fear of missing out” (FOMO). They keep on returning to social media every time. Many fear that they might miss either a conversation, discussion, latest news, gossip, or invitation. So to remain updated, social media remains the only option that can quench their thirst.

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Furthermore, social media addiction has resulted in the disruption of normal sleeping patterns. Lights from your phone can disrupt your sleep, which in turn can have a serious impact on your mental health.

There are an estimated 3.9 billion users of social media in the world today. Facebook, YouTube, and Instagram each claim more than two billion subscribers! Kenyans have not been left behind and an estimated nine million subscribe to various media platforms.

In conclusion, It is ironic that while social network platforms were meant to enhance relationships, on the contrary, overuse of these sites normally corrodes our interactions with others. Mental health today continues to manifest itself as one of the biggest challenges we face. Increasingly, social media is revealing more and more cases of people doing and saying questionable things.

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Conclusively, if those near you complain of neglect as you spend time on your gadgets, take note and do something about it before it is too late. Individually, it is advisable to make a habit of a self-regulation mechanism whereby one decides that they will only check their social media at certain given times during the day — and stick to the routine. Likewise, an individual can also see a therapist, who is capable of diagnosing any underlying psychological issues that might be making them spend hours searching for solace on social media.

By Maxwell Kamau and Jackson Ngari
Email address: maxwellkamau685@gmail.com

Women Living With Fistula Are Humans Too; End Discrimination Against Them

With over two million women living with fistula globally, the WHO estimates that 50,000 to 100,000 women worldwide each year are affected with obstetric fistula, which is the abnormal opening that occurs between the women’s genital tract and her urinary tract. This type of fistula is the major cause of maternal mortality and obstructed labour among the women.

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Women who live with obstetric fistula suffer from constant shame, social segregation and other health problems. This fistula occurs when a mother has a prolonged, obstructed labour and doesn’t have access to immediate medical attention.

Some of the risk factors for fistula is teenage pregnancy, where you find the teen will give birth in a normal way, during giving birth, it leads to breaking of the genital parts of the teen. Poor access to medical care or the late access to medical attention when in labour pains is also one of the biggest factors with  malnutrition and obstructed labour. The symptoms may include foul smell due to vaginal discharge, repeated urinary tract infections and pain in the virginal and during sex.

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With countries like Burkina Faso believing that women with fistulas are cursed and they should be killed or isolated, and it is not a medical condition as medical doctors say, it has led to stigmatization of women living in that part of Africa.

Stigmatization among the fistula patients comes in different forms that explicit verbal abuse and devaluing them to be with others; women’s own anticipated stigma fearing that people may talk about her; and woman’s internalized stigmatization and revealed as being shameful, loss of self- worth, and self- importance. Thus the significant women affected by obstetric fistula isolate themselves from social interaction and leave their usual household roles, refrain from disclosing their situation, they avoid even seeking healthcare, and thus may suffer different mental problems, all of which lead them to be unable to contribute positively to their society’s social, economic, and political development.

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Obviously, stigmatization causes the majority of women living with obstetric fistula to experience severe psychological traumas including humiliation, being marginalized, abandonment, loneliness, divorce, and despair, which are the most difficult situations to bear. Also, they experience angriness, sadness, and shame associated with their inability to undertake their role in a decent manner, and being frightened of their future life in relation to having partners, marriage, sex, becoming pregnant, giving birth, and reintegrating back in their local communities. Overall, stigmatization related to genital fistula has devastating health, social, economic, and psychological consequences on the health and well-being of the affected women, which in turn affects their rehabilitation and reintegration to their families and communities even after successful fistula repair. A number of strategies should be put in place to enable the affected women to be free from stigmatization, and also to encourage them to seek healthcare quickly and live freely a productive life after fistula treatment.

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To reduce the perceived level of stigma and therefore to prevent the severe negative consequences of it, not only fathers, but also mothers, husbands, family members, and all the persons close to women living with genital fistulas should provide care and psychological support and all the necessary means to strongly encourage them to seek health care quickly, and to make them feel that they are beloved, and that there is hope for a healthy life in their near future. The government should also join in the fight against stigmatization of these women; let us offer love, care and attention to them.

 

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Aggrey Karani is an undergraduate student pursuing Bsc in communication and journalism at Rongo University.

 

 

 

 

Why Kenya Is Yet To Eradicate Menstrual Stigmatization

 

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Menstrual stigmatization has become so prevalent in Kenya that girls and women have become subjects to period shaming. Sadly, Kenya is hardly the only country home to period shaming commonly referred to as menstrual stigmatization. Normally, menstruation is a healthy and natural part of the female reproduction cycle. Devastatingly, many girls during their developmental stages in the country still experience period stigma. Ending the global stigma which surrounds female menstruation and making sanitary products widely available is all important to increase women’s health, education, employment, empowerment and livelihood.

 

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According to UN experts, ” The stigma and shame generated by stereotypes around menstruation have severe impacts on all aspects of women and girls’ human rights’.” On any given normal day, more than 800 million girls between 15-49 years are menstruating yet the stigma still persists.

 

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According to research done by Menstrual Health Day, a global advocacy platform for non-profit organizations and agencies to promote menstrual health shows that 65 percent of Kenyan girls and women are unable to afford basic sanitary pads. The situation is so burning that in a 2015 study 3000 women, Dr Penelope Phillips-Howard found one in 10-15 year-old girls were having sex to get money to pay for sanitary wear. Furthermore, a 2020 study done by the population council in fire informal slum settlements in Nairobi Kenya, for example, found that the pandemic affected the ability of women and girls to buy sanitary products. One third of the women in the study said that they weren’t able to buy sanitary pads. At the same time, a research conducted by the Ministry of Education showed that girls in Kenya usually miss about four days of school each month on an average of 20 percent of the school terms which translates to two years of learning each term because they are on their periods.

 

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In spite of  recent robust campaigns by Kenyan women in challenging menstruation taboos and increasing attention to the issue of menstruation stigmatization in Kenya, the country still experiences a myriad of period shaming cases. Due to this stigmatization and at times lack of sexual education—both from the community and school, menstruation knowledge remain limited leaving many girls with negative and unsure feelings and experiencing psycho-social stress, which impacts their stability to learn. Therefore, period stigma and taboos persist, and can undermine adolescent girl’s confidence at a key stage of development. For instance, in September 2019 a kenyan school girl died by suicide after experience too much period shaming. The 14-year-old adolescent had experienced an excessive humiliation from the teacher after being called “dirty” for staining her uniform. So menstrual stigmatization has a significant impact on the social and family life, education, work and general well-being of women and girls.

 

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Few years ago, the Kenyan government took steps in countering this problem. It became the first country in the world to drop taxes on imports of sanitary products for women and girls. Additionally, the government committed $3M to help distribute sanitary pads to low income communities. In April 2016, the government launched a similar funded programme to help distribute over 140 million free sanitary pads to 4.2 million girls across the country. Unfortunately, it collapsed out as supplies ran out and girls started missing classes again despite it running for four months.

 

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Three years ago, the head of state assented to the Basic Education Amendment Act that would have seen girls who have reached puberty across the country be provided with free, quality sanitary towels in sufficient quantities, all funded by the state. But so far little has happened on the ground. There have also been growing concerns about embezzlement of funds mend for sanitary pads. A report published by the Nairobi News showed that a supply of 300,000 sanitary napkins intended for schools had been stolen and repackaged with the intention of reselling them.

 

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In rural areas of Kenya, only 32 per cent of schools have a private place for girls to change and dispose of their sanitary products and those that have, are poorly maintained and unsuitable for menstrual health hygiene. Many teachers are also uncomfortable talking about or teaching menstruation. To improve on that matter, gender-separated facilities with door locks, lighting, disposal bins and washing stations with soap and water need to be constructed. Also, behavior changes and hygiene promotion campaigns incorporating menstrual health hygiene need to be undertaken, targeting teachers, parents and the larger communities.

 

The government should invest more funds in monitoring and surveillance to ensure that sanitary towels reach those who need them the most. In conclusion, there is also a need to further exploration of barriers that lead to period shaming and address it urgently.

 

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By JACKSON NGARI and MAXWELL KAMAU.

 

 

Techniques To Help You Improve Your Recalling Abilities

 

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Recalling any type of information when needed urgently can sometimes be a tough challenge to some of us, our friends or any other person. It depends on some of the physiological limits of how each of our memories works. Some may find it difficult to remember either names of people, places they had earlier visited, instructions given or key concepts presented in class if they were students. Even within seconds, we are likely to disremember everything we have been listening to.

 

We human beings possess large sensory storage in terms of capacity but we are limited in terms of length of storage. One  can hold a large amount of visually unsorted information but due to that shortcoming, it later becomes difficult to recall the information again when you want to apply it somewhere.

 

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You now need to be prudent if you want to batten your recalling abilities. The following helpful techniques can be adopted and put into practice:

 

  • Write it down
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Most people would prefer writing it down while listening, recording or learning some concepts since it is more effective as compared to typing. Since it takes longer to write by hand, you are forced to be more selective with what you write and focus on the key information. This technique is more effective while listening to a speech or concepts being taught in class.

 

  • Use Visual cues
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With the aid of effective visual tools such as photos of people, places, maps, graphs and charts, it makes it easier to conceptualize information you visually see. They work miraculously!

 

  • Mnemonics devices
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If you want to remember a series of information, you can also consider using this technique. Mnemonic devices such as rhymes, acronyms and acrostics are helpful. For example if a student wants to easily recall the public relation process, he or she might come up with a creative rhyme. Recalling those five vital steps won’t be a hard thing for the student.

 

  • Say it aloud!
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The dual action of speaking and hearing ourselves talk helps get words and phrases into long-term memory. Our memory benefits from active involvement.

 

  • Make associations

Creating association by drawing on existing knowledge is another helpful way to recall information. You can create mental images and make connections with sounds, smell and tests to help encode memories.

 

If you want to make your recalling experience fantabulous, why don’t you give those five techniques a try? You won’t regret it anymore.

 

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By MAXWELL KAMAU

 

17 Myths And Facts About STIs That You Need To Know

 

Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) are infections transmitted by having unprotected sex with an infected partner. STIs are some most common communicable diseases particularly among young people aged 15-24 years.

 

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Over the past few fears, people have been fervently coming up with different theories that try to shed some light on matters relating to STIs. But there were some weaknesses as some theories were later discovered to be myths. It has now become onerous for individuals to differentiate between STI facts and myths. This draws the sense that the truth has been contradicted.

 

Here are compilations of 17 myths discovered and the true facts behind them.

It’s easy to tell if someone has an STI

Fact: Not every STI causes clear signs and symptoms. You cannot tell, by looking at someone, whether they have an STI or not. Take HPV, for example, a virus that can cause genital warts and even cervical cancer. Almost all sexually active people will get it at some point in their lives, but not have any symptoms.

Using two condoms is safer and lowers the risk of getting an STI

Fact: Using two condoms at once actually increases the risk of them slipping or breaking, which means less protection. Stick to just one condom. For anal sex, use extra lube.

 

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STIs happen to other people, not me. Besides, you can’t get an STI the first time you have sex.

Fact: Anyone engaging in certain sexual activities with someone who has an STI can contract an STI automatically, whether it’s the first time or the hundredth.

 

You can’t get an STI from oral sex

Fact: Yes, you can. Any form of intimacy, whether it’s vaginal, anal, oral or just genital skin-to-skin contact, can give you an STI. So always be safe when you get intimate with someone: use condoms or dental dams.

 

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All STIs are easy to treat

Fact: Unfortunately, that’s not the case. While some, like chlamydia, are indeed easily treatable, there is no cure for others, like HIV. But even for the curable STIs, when one delays in seeking treatment and complications set in, the treatment isn’t as simple, and one may have to live with life-long complications such as infertility.

 

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You can’t get the same STI more than once

Fact: Yes you can. Unfortunately having a certain STI doesn’t make you immune to it in the future. After the infection has been cured, you are vulnerable to it once again. That is why you should stop having sex with your partner(s) while you are getting treated for an STI. If you infect your partner, then he or she can pass the infection back to you as soon as you are cured.

Some STIs like Genital Herpes infect you once, then can keep reoccurring for a lifetime.

Condoms protect against all STIs

Fact: This might come as a shock, but condoms can’t prevent the transmission of all STIs. Some of them, like HPV and herpes, can be found anywhere around your genitals. And a condom won’t cover these areas, leaving you at risk of infection.

That’s not an excuse to drop the condom though!

 

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I’ve only ever had one partner, so I can’t have an STI

Fact: Unfortunately, even if you’ve only had one partner, you can get an STI. If both of you have never had any kind of sexual contact before, the risk is low.

But, some infections (like HPV) are very common that many people get the infection on the first sexual encounter, and can be transmitted through skin contact alone. So there is a risk of infection, even if you’ve only ever had one partner.

 

You can’t have two STIs at once

Fact: Yes, you can. In fact, having an STI might make it even easier to get another one. If you have genital warts or genital herpes, for example, HIV can enter the body more easily. And chlamydia and gonorrhea appear together so often, that if you have one of them, the doctor is bound to test you for the other.

 

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If he pulls out before he comes, I can’t get infected

Fact: Pre-cum—drops of fluid that the penis discharges during arousal—can contain HIV, other STIs, or even sperm. Several STIs that cause genital ulcers, such as syphilis or Herpes are not contained in semen, but get transmitted on genital-to-genital contact. It’s best to use a condom as soon as the penis is erect.

 

Lesbians don’t get STIs

Fact: All women who engage in certain sexual activities are at risk for STIs, Some STIs can be transmitted between women by genital-to-genital or oral-to-genital contact that involves the exchange of vaginal fluids or by sharing sex toys, and some can be transmitted by skin-to-skin contact.

 

After sex, you can prevent STIs by douching, washing your genitals, or urinating

Fact: Douching can actually push germs farther into your reproductive tract rather than wash them out, and can also alter your vaginal pH, which is normally protectively low. Even washing your genitals or urinating after sex is ineffective in protecting against developing an STI after exposure.

 

You can’t get an STI from anal sex

Fact: The viruses and bacteria that cause  STIs don’t just go for the genitals. They can be spread through imperceptible cuts in the anus, as well. Some STIs, like genital warts and herpes, can be contracted from skin-to-skin contact alone, if you are exposed to an infected area; and gonorrhea also infects the lining in the mouth and eyes as well!

 

Condoms are only for heterosexual sex

Fact: Condoms can be used for any form of sexual encounter, be it with sex toys, anal or vaginal penetration

 

Someone who has condoms is having sex

Fact: Just because someone has condoms, it doesn’t mean they are having sex. It means they are taking control of their health and the health of others.

 

If I am using contraception, I don’t need to use a condom

Fact: No birth control method offers protection against STIs, except the condom. Other methods of  birth control like pills, rings, IUDs (the coil), and the implant do not protect against STIs, they only protect against pregnancy. So it is safe and smart to use condoms every time you have sex.

 

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The real thing is that having protected sex is better and it will set you free at some point. STIs don’t discriminate, anyone can get infected and slowly by slowly, your life will be gobbled.

 

 

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BY MAXWELL KAMAU

5 Educational Ways Of Maintaining Menstrual Hygiene During Your Periods

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Periods are a natural bodily function, and are a sign that a girl or woman can get pregnant and have babies. Your period is the part of your menstrual cycle when  blood from the uterus (womb) passes through the vagina and out of the body. Periods are totally normal and healthy!

 

Periods can make a mess, especially if they start when you were not expecting it! But remember that they are a completely natural process. During their menstrual periods, girls are always advised to consider hygiene all the time—Which is for their own inarguably benefits. Due to fear of speaking out which is triggered by period teasing from male friends, stigma and lack of knowledge, most girls don’t know what to do next at the time of their periods; they end up doing the unexpected.

 

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Despite the challenges girls and women face everyday, menstrual hygiene management and practices matters alot. One can manage to stay clean by doing the following:

 

  • You should bathe every day as you usually do. If you can, clean your vulva (the outside part of your genitals) twice a day with water. Dry yourself and put a fresh cloth or pad on your underwear. Bathing regularly helps in cleaning your private parts as well as relieving your bad mood.

 

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  • Change your pad, cloth or tampon as soon as it is getting full. If you are using a pad, it is advisable to change it every six hours while if you are using a tampon, every two hours is recommended. The reason for this is that when menstrual blood is released from the body, various organisms are attracted to the body which multiplies in the warmth of the blood and causes irritation, rashes or urinary tract infections.

 

  • Find a good sanitary brand that works for you and stick to it. Those with sensitive skin should avoid sanitary pads with plastic lining, as they can cause rashes, itchiness, and boils when rubbing against the skin.

 

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  • Do not try to clean the inside of your vagina because it can make infections more likely. The vagina has its own cleaning mechanism that works in a very fine balance of good and bad bacteria. Washing it with soap can kill the good bacteria making way for infections. So, while it is important to wash regularly during this time, all you need to use is some warm water. You can use soap on the external parts but do not use it inside your vagina or vulva.

 

  • It’s also advised that you put on comfortable and loose clothes. Avoid tight-fitting ones like jeans. This will ensure free air circulation around the sensitive areas as well as minimize the rate of sweating.

 

With these five educational tips, any girl can stay clean as long as they are followed. Above all, we need to end stigmatization against our girls. Periods are a natural and healthy way of cleaning their wombs. Let’s not freak them out again.

 

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By MAXWELL KAMAU

 

 

 

 

Healthy Breakfast Ideas

Eggs

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Eggs make a simple, nutritious breakfast choice. They’re an excellent source of protein, which helps support muscle synthesis. Since protein takes a while to digest, it also helps keep you feeling full.

The dish may support weight management, additionally, egg yolks contain lutein and zeaxanthin. These antioxidants help prevent eye disorders like cataracts and macular degeneration.

Eggs are also one of the best sources of choline, a vital nutrient for brain and liver health. Contrary to popular belief, eggs don’t raise cholesterol levels in most people despite their high cholesterol content. In fact, one review of 23 studies found that eggs have a mild protective effect against heart disease (7Trusted Source).

That said, try to limit your intake of highly processed breakfast items that are commonly paired with eggs, such as breakfast sausages and bacon. Instead, eat your eggs with other nutritious foods, such as whole grain toast, whole fruit, or sautéed vegetables.

SUMMARY

Eggs are high in protein and several important nutrients. They may promote fullness and help lower your calorie intake later in the day.

Greek yogurt

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Greek yogurt is a great option if you’re looking for a quick breakfast. It’s made by straining whey and other liquid from milk curds, which produces a creamy product that’s more concentrated in protein than regular yogurt.

In addition, it’s lower in calories than other protein sources. A 1-cup (245-gram) serving boasts 25 grams of protein and only 149 calories. Greek yogurt is full of beneficial nutrients like calcium, vitamin B12, zinc, potassium, and phosphorus.

SUMMARY

Greek yogurt is not only high in protein and low in calories, but certain types are also high in probiotics, which support gut health.

Coffee

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Aside from water, coffee is the world’s most popular beverage. It’s high in caffeine, a molecule that promotes alertness, improves mood, and increases physical and mental performance. Notably, many athletes drink coffee as a natural pre-workout beverage to support sports performance. Regular coffee intake is associated with many health benefits, such as a lower risk of heart disease, type 2 diabetes, obesity, liver disease, Parkinson’s, certain types of cancer, and even death from all causes.

Most studies suggest that 1–3 cups (240–710 mL) per day — containing about 300–400 mg of caffeine — provide these benefits. Although this amount is safe for adults, you should limit yourself to 300 mg or less of caffeine per day if you’re pregnant.

Finally, it’s best to drink your coffee black or with dairy or plant-based milk. Try to use sugar sparingly or avoid it altogether, as too much sugar is linked to health risks.

SUMMARY

The caffeine in coffee promotes alertness and enhances physical and mental performance. Drinking coffee regularly is associated with a lower risk of illnesses.

Berries

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Berries, including blueberries, raspberries, strawberries, and blackberries are delicious and packed with antioxidants.

Most are high in fiber, which promotes fullness. In fact, raspberries and blackberries each provide an impressive 8 grams of fiber per cup (123–144 grams) 

Plus, 1 cup (123–144 grams) of berries contains only 50–85 calories depending on the type.

Berries also offer antioxidants called anthocyanins, which provide their characteristic blue, purple, and red colors. A diet high in anthocyanins is linked to reduced inflammation and a lower risk of illnesses like heart disease and certain types of cancer.

Additionally, anthocyanins are associated with better brain health and may protect against age-related mental decline. You can purchase berries year-round either fresh or frozen. Add them to Greek yogurt, cottage cheese, oatmeal, or a fruit smoothie for a tasty breakfast.

SUMMARY

Nuts

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Berries are high in fiber and low in calories. They’re also rich in antioxidants that may decrease your risk of disease.

Nuts of all types are high in magnesium, potassium, and heart-healthy monounsaturated fat. They’re also a great source of antioxidant.

Brazil nuts are one of the best sources of selenium. Just 2 Brazil nuts provide more than 100% of the Daily Value (DV).

Although nuts are high in calories, studies suggest you don’t absorb all of their fat.

For example, some studies show that your body only absorbs about 129 calories from a 1-ounce (28-gram) serving of whole almonds, though you absorb more fat from processed versions, such as almond butter.

Another study notes that your body only absorbs 80% of the calories from almonds and walnuts.

Furthermore, nuts’ high protein, fat, and fiber contents promote fullness, which may aid weight management.

Nut intake is also linked to better heart and brain health. In fact, one study associated eating peanuts and tree nuts 2 or more times per week and walnuts 1 or more times per week with a 13–19% reduced risk of heart disease.

Topping Greek yogurt, cottage cheese, or oatmeal with a spoonful or two of chopped nuts is a great way to increase your breakfast’s nutritional value.

SUMMARY

Nuts are a filling, nutrient-dense food that may help reduce heart disease risk and promote brain health.

Wholesome Breakfast Pancakes and Waffles

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Pancakes and waffles are not easy to whip up on a busy morning, but good news is that they are one of the best foods to freeze. Cook the recipe or double it up, let cool completely, place in a Ziploc bag, release as much air as possible and freeze laying flat for up to 3 months. When ready to eat, pop straight from the freezer into the toaster or microwave.

Courtesy healthline.

 

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By JOE MWANGI

 

 

Understand what mental health is!!

Mental health is a state of well-being in which the individual realizes his or her own abilities, can cope with the normal stresses of life, can work productively and fruitfully, and is able to make a contribution to his or her community. According to the World Health Organization (WHO). Mental health includes subjective well-being, perceived self-efficacy, autonomy, competence, intergenerational dependence, and self-actualization of one’s intellectual and emotional potential, among others. From the perspectives of positive psychology or holism, mental health may include an individual’s ability to enjoy life and to create a balance between life activities and efforts to achieve psychological resilience. Cultural differences, subjective assessments, and competing professional theories all affect how one defines “mental health”. Some early signs related health problems are sleep irritation, lack of energy and thinking of harming yourself or others.

Mental health includes our emotional, psychological, and social well-being. It affects how we think, feel, and act. It also helps determine how we handle stress, relate to others, and make choices. Mental health is important at every stage of life, from childhood and adolescence through adulthood.

Some of the more common mental health issues and mental illnesses are:

Anxiety disorders. 

Behavioural and emotional disorders in children.  

Bipolar affective disorder. 

Depression.

Dissociation and dissociative disorders. 

Eating disorders. 

Obsessive compulsive disorder.

Paranoia.

Talking about mental health helps improve our communities by making it more acceptable for those suffering from mental illnesses to seek help, learn to cope, and get on the road to recovery. In addition, mental health isn’t just about mental illnesses. It’s also about maintaining a positive state of wellbeing.

By JOE MWANGI.