
Mental health affects the way people think, feel and act. Taking care of our mental health is just as important as having a healthy life. Having good mental health is key to the healthy development and well-being of every child. Kids need good mental health — not only to be able to cope with challenges and adapt to change, but so they can feel good about themselves, build healthy relationships with others, and enjoy life.
Most parents have registered good performance at keeping their kids physically healthy. They burn the candle at both ends to ensure they get healthy diets, get immunized on time, and stay physically active. But despite their good parenting work, a child’s emotional and mental well-being is just as important to their quality of life as being physically healthy.

Kerry Heath, a licensed professional counselor with Choosing Therapy adds that every aspect of our lives such as emotional, physical, relational, and spiritual are connected with our mental health. Since they are interrelated, when one or more areas are impacted, our mental health is likely to be adversely affected.
Kids’ mental health can be influenced by many things like family issues, school life, and life events. While they can experience mental health issues at any age, they are most at risk between the ages of 12 and 16 years. We all feel sad, upset, or angry sometimes.

But if a kid feels like this most of the time, it is a sign they need immediate help. Alarmingly, 75 percent of kids and young people who experience mental health-related problems such as depression, abuse(physical, emotional, or sexual), bullying (including cyberbullying), suicide, or relationship problems (family and peer issues), and anxiety are not getting the help that they need.
It is next to impossible for a child with mental illness to be able to think, make new friends, and learn new things. But the one with good mental health can develop self-confidence, build self-esteem, practice perseverance, set goals in life, make good decisions, manage difficult emotions and develop a healthy emotional outlook on life.

Most parents seldom spend enough time with their kids listening to their daily experiences, and what is pressing them. Due to harsh economic conditions coupled with huge debts and other needs that they must cater to, they end up working for long hours, approximately 15-20 hours a day, from Monday to Friday. Upon their arrival back home, some are usually frustrated, depressed, or drained.
According to Mental Health Foundation and Children Society, 2008, 50 percent of mental health problems are established by the age of 14 and 75 percent by age of 24.10 percent of children and young people (aged 5-16 years) have a clinically diagnosable mental problem, yet 70 percent of children and adolescents who experience mental health problems have not had appropriate interventions at a sufficiently early age.

So who is to be blamed? Good mental health begins in infancy. But neglect by parents and guardians to pay attention to the mental health of their kids has bred danger. Kids of age 10-15 have died by suicide mainly because of depression, others end up using narcotics, and the number of those dropping out of school has risen.
In 2017, WHO ranked us sixth with the highest number of depression cases among African countries. Parents and caregivers, therefore, have a crucial role to play in fostering good mental health, seeking support when it is needed, and guiding their kids through life. As a parent, the most important way of supporting your child’s mental health is by showing them, unconditional love. Let your kids know that irrespective of the challenges that they are facing, you love them unconditionally and that you are there for them.

Make sure you are framing your child’s mistake as a way of learning instead of communicating failure, says Jenni Torres, a senior Vice President of curriculum and instructions for the non-profit Waterford.org Moreover, encouragement, praise, and affirmations are all ways in which parents can not only build their child’s self-confidence and self-esteem but more importantly, support their mental health.
Research shows that low self-esteem is associated with anxiety, depression, and academic stress, which all significantly affect a child’s quality of life. Low self-esteem can even lead to suicidal ideation.Spending time together as a family also gives parents much-needed face-time with their kids to learn what they are struggling with.

It sends messages to your kids that you care about what is happening in their lives. You can also easily recognize issues in your child’s life because you communicate regularly every time you are together. Parents also need to create an environment in their home where it is safe for kids to discuss their feelings and struggles. Kids need to feel safe in the environment that they are growing in.
Be a good role model by building a healthy and strong trust with your child. Once they are guaranteed that, they will eventually open up about their struggles.

The blue star insider
By; Joseph Wanjihia Mwangi,Journalist| Comms| Scribe| Maverick| Bibliophile| Arts, Culture & Entertainment nerd| Dreamer| 4th Estate.
























































